Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Married Life Is Suiting Me Well

 (This is the continuation to "Hey, I'm Getting Married".

The ”house” part consisted of a small hall that opened into a sizable living/dining room next to a a small patio with stone paving and bars and net for roof. There was a corridor through the house and on the right side there was a social area restroom, a large kitchen, maid's quarters , clothes patio, two bedrooms and a the main bathroom with a shower cabin and a large water heater. The other water heaters were located in the kitchen and in th back bedroom that gave out on Cra 43.
On the left hand side of the corridor there were two bedrooms in continuation to the living(dining area and the decorative patio.




The ”school” part of the house consisted of a swimming pool, four rooms, lawn, garage and a bathroom. We built a sandbox and brought in the slide, the wooden furniture for the school classes in geometrical forms and bright primary colours, the metallic desk and the swiveling stool, the file cabinet and the copy machine. We had a secretary working part time, a student from the institute whose name was Inés, with big brown eyes, but she didn't stay long, we really neither needed nor could afford to have a secretary.

The summers were always slow and lazy in Cali. Unproductive, too. The pre-school setup that we had named rather pompously ”Windsor School” at the insistence of our upper class friends to find a neme that was both in English and associated with high class and Europe. (Now, a lifetime later, I thing Hyacinth Bucket School would've been funnier, or Onslow Academy for Spoiled Little Brats). Anyway, Windsor School was on summer break from June to the end August, leaving us the income earned teaching English at Harris, which was also slow in the summer and the annual registration and income for ”matriculas and materiales” that trickled in slowly during the summer. People would come at any crazy time to enroll their kids and we were conned a couple of times too; making change for bad checks paying matricula for nonexistent kids. Living right next to your business was both good and bad. At the beginning, we had no privacy at all, people stopped by on Sundays, late in the evenings to look at the school, to discuss teaching methods (I didn't have the slightest idea of what they were talking about, but kept reading my book ”Kindergarten in USA” and finding answers....or making them up.) Once a lady stopped by to ask if we taught palmer method...err???I THINK I said that we use updated, modern methods which was probably the right answer anyway, since Palmer is a very outdated handwriting style, lovely, but no kids nowadays in Europe anyway can even read it nor can their parents.

The first couple of years we were pretty much fumbling in the dark. Neither of us had any experience with kids (except some English classes taught to age-integrated children groups at Harris on Saturday mornings), were not especially into children or child-rearing or pedagogy for that matter, we considered ourselves language teachers , nothing else. I had just turned 25, Fabián 27., both of us interrupted college careers behind us, mine in English Philology and World History in Turku University in Finland, he in Industrial Engineering at the Universidad Tecnologica in Pereira. I was good at languages and writing, he was good at math and drawing. None of us could sing or dance to save our lives.



Working with kids had proved to be more fun than what I had imagined. We played ”Ring-a-rang-a rosy” and ”London Bridge Is Falling Down” with the kids, taught them a little English, read books, played with manipulative material, let them draw, paint, work with playdough...nothing very horribly wrong with that. The mistake I made was to learn Spanish too well, too fast and as my Spanish became better, the amount of English I spoke to the kids got less. Fabian drove the bus together with Luis Aulden, the chauffer; we had purchased the second van at that time, the black-and-white Transit that he drove all those years after too, The amount of children increased and we started hiring more people.

That summer of 73 we met Eduardo Parra, the Ibaguereño established in Bogotá and transferred to Cali through mutual friends. He was looking for a place to stay, we had room and needed the extra income. He moved in the extra bedroom next to the clothes patio and we grew to be good friends. I used to invite him on complimentary Sunday lunches, we watched Bruce Lee-movies (”Enter The Dragon” ) with him. Somebody had told him he looked a little like Bruce Lee and he was a fan forever, after that. Fabian loved martial arts too and I liked everything at that time. Eduardo worked as an accountant or something like that at the French automobile franchise Simca (”Sim carro”) and drove company car, getting his simca traded in in every two years and we got to drive it when he was traveling.

A couple of his friends, two Bogotá girls came to visit and we gave them room and board during the week they were in Cali. That Christmas we went to Bogotá and spent a week there and stayed at the house of the older girl and her family. It was a lovely Christmas, Eduardo was with us in Bogotá and drove us all around, on sightseeing, we went to the Gold Museum, the Salt Cathedral in Zipaquirá, Simon Bolivar Museum, the National Museum, Monserrate in the cable car, Laguna de la Guatavita where the myth of the Eldorado has been said to have originated based on the custom of the chibcha
rulers to be covered in gold dust and taken on a royal float amidst the deep waters of the lake and being dipped in the water shedding all that gold in the bottom of the lake on his coronation day.



The original muisca village had been flooded when the river was dammed and a new village for the people had been constructed, in Spanish colonial style, very pretty but not very authentic. I bought some handicrafts from the Indigenius artisans before returning to Bogotá the same day. 

 

We spent the New Year with the Bogotá family we were staying with. We had home-made tamales and sabajon that resembles eggnog, it's made with egg and aguardiente. This was the first time I tasted non-valluno tamales; these were made with rice stuffing and could not compare. Taking showers in Bogotá was an adventure. The family had a tiny water heater for the shower and the water was never hot, just tepid and already cold when it hit your feet. It was cold at nights, just a few plus degrees, humid and unpleasant, with no heating. People wore thick woollen ruanas over their pyjamas for breakfast.

(Ruana is the Colombian poncho. Both men and women wear them out in the country and in the small, cold altiplano towns, Men's ruana has a hole in the middle and is often dark-coloured, stripey or patterned, women's ruana is open front, in bright colours and you wear it like a huge scarf with one end thrown over your shoulder.)

Traffic in Bogotá was terrible, a total chaos at that time. It doesn't look anything like that any longer, with the transmilenio transport system and bikeways built under Mockus' and Peñalosa administrations Bogotá became a modern city, a transitable city. They haven't been able to do anything about the lousy weather though. Cold and rainy at nights, mild and rainy during the days, no real warmth due to the altitude, except for short moments at midday sun and you need a jacket and an umbrella every time you leave home.


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